Getting a full connection in bed is not easy and falling into learned postures is not just routine. Discover five areas that you will activate with the simple touch
Many people consider themselves good and experienced lovers with some ease when it comes to sex, and why not, they can really be. However, getting a complete connection in bed is not an easy task and falling into learned postures is not only routine, it’s not exciting for him or her – who, believe it or not, has already realized that it’s your star move.
It is necessary to innovate and explore new destinations on the pleasure map to bring the other person to an unexpected and satisfying climax.
When you’re in a couple it’s easier to know where you can find the tickling, generate a chill or touch that point that we know excites the other person. Although the excess of confidence sometimes derives in that we always move by the same places in which we have the success in tray. But what about the capacity for surprise?
Whether you’re matched or not, don’t settle down. When we make love, touch is the sense that is most stimulated. The touch of body with body itself is usually exciting but if we take into account the power that our hands have on the skin of the other person, we can use them with head.
As they explain in the digital edition of the Italian newspaper D Repubblica “the skin is the largest sexual organ and you have it at your disposal to try to give pleasure”. We can activate each part of the body with a simple caress, a hug or a massage. Here are five female erogenous zones that you should approach, to see what is cooked.
1. Head and scalp
Hair massages are always pleasant. If to a simple movement of the fingertips we add a little bit of mischief and caresses that go from the neck to the chin and end all over the face, we will activate many other areas and lead the other person to a state of well-being and calm.
Do not let any corner of the area escape you. Exercising a soft pressure with the fingers on the center of the temples, as a massage, and accompanying it with relaxing circles in the skull, we will release tensions and help to enter a situation of complete relaxation. Accompany these movements with appropriate breathing, the constant contact of your hands with your body and, why not, a few kisses, can discover a whole universe of sensations.
2. The belly
The navel zone is the center of the body’s energy. By stimulating it, the body begins to radiate heat and transmits it to the whole body. Caressing it with the themes of the fingers from the waist to the navel – gently and without tickling if there are any – we can gradually excite the other person.
Using the face and mouth to stimulate the area will intensify the sensations and will turn the sensation of pleasant pleasure into a carnal desire.
3. The folds of the skin
Your knees, elbows, forearms, wrists… Did you miss these areas? Well, caressing and stimulating them, both with gentle movements of the fingertips and with the lips and even with the tongue – controlling the excess saliva – can give unexpected pleasure.
Normally abandoned, properly arousing them can lead to the woman shivering and feeling a new tickle. Since they are not intimate areas, they can be caressed at any time without it being striking – that is, also in public while having dinner or a drink – “helping to create an complicity and an erotic game that will culminate later,” they recommend in the article.
4. The feet
On the soles of the feet there are thousands of nerve endings so massaging them properly can, in addition to relaxing and giving pleasure, activate many other parts of the body.
Never strokes too soft, it is best to warm the area by grasping the feet with both hands and using the yolks to activate the sole. Once it is clear that you are not tickling it – do not take a kick as a reflex – continue massaging the ankle and heel in small rotations.
Supporting the soles of his feet on your chest to make you feel your breath, bringing them closer to your face and even nibbling or licking them, can lead to a complete triumph or a complete disconcerting failure. Pay attention to the signs.
5. The complete one: the whole body
Why focus on a single area when you can massage his entire body? It is important that you use your body weight to activate each area you touch. Not dead weight, but she can feel that it’s your hands that are grabbing her and giving her pleasure.
The ideal is to get the sensation of nakedness of body to body, leaving total freedom to the sense of touch as all-powerful pleasure. You can start the massage with her seated resting her body on your chest and massaging her arms from top to bottom before lying down and do the same with the rest of back, neck, shoulders, waist, coccyx, legs … A complete from head to toe that is convenient to combine with strength and caresses.
Do not forget the buttocks, for this you can help from the elbows and make smooth circles.
Candles -or at least an adequate light that is not the fluorescent of the kitchen-, an appropriate music and oils and creams of massage, will be the ideal complements to discover new zones that your hands will find simply sliding by each nook and cranny of your body.
This does not mean that you stick to the vicinity of their sexual organs, but not forgetting them and tickling those areas will increase the excitement and desire for you to get closer and closer.