There are a lot of great ways to turn a girl on through sexting, and it’s important that you know what some of them are. The more of this information you have, the more successful you are going to be.

It is important to get her mind hot and ready. If you can master the art of sexy messages using dirty talk, she’ll be wet and wanting before you ever walk through the door. This is sexting as long-distance foreplay. Not a single one of the world’s greatest lovers EVER skipped foreplay. Plus, it can trigger your naughty fantasies and make you hot under the collar while you’re at work or on the road. Sexting examples will also help you establish what your girl does and does not like, so you can say the right things as you two do the tango on the bed.

Super Hot Sexting Examples:

  1. “I bet you’d be amazing in bed. I’d love to see your sexy naked body and feel it against me.”
  2. “Let me give you a hand. I’ll make your toes curl up in pleasure, running my tongue all over your body.”
  3. “I’m thinking about you naked, imaging how perfect your breasts feel in my hands as I cup them.”
  4. “It’s so hot to imagine you tying me up and yanking my pants down. Run your hands all over my body.”
  5. “I’m getting so hard in my pants just picturing you on your knees unbuttoning my pants and sliding them off.”
  6. “I’m aching to run my tongue along your pussy and get you wet. I’ll make you grip the sheets with pleasure.”
  7. “I want to have your tits in my mouth, tracing them with my tongue and going around your nipples making them wet and slippery.”
  8. “I have been so hard just thinking about you all day, imagining how much I’d love to slide my hand down your pants.”
  9. “Tell me what you want me to do with my rock hard cock. It’s throbbing so hard in my pants right now.”
  10. “I am starved for your pussy. I’d love to lift your legs up and work my tongue in between them.”
  11. “I’m going to make you moan so loud. Slide my cock inside you slowly and keep thrusting harder and harder.”
  12. “I want to spray your naked body down with whipped cream and lick every little bit off of it slowly.”
  13. “Right now I’m thinking about how much I’d love to be in your bed, ripping off your clothes and kissing every inch of your perfect body.”
  14. “I’ve been working all day and now I need to play. Why don’t you come over and give me a hand?”
  15. “I am dying to see you naked. I want to be inside of you so bad.”
  16. “I want to have my way with you.”
  17. “Touch yourself for me like I’m touching myself now.”
  18. “Just the thought of you gets me so worked up and hard.”
  19. “You are a dirty girl, aren’t you?”
  20. “I want you to take my clothes off and use your mouth to please me all over.”
  21. “I want to go deep inside of you so hard.”
  22. “I am going to push your hands down on the bed and take control.”
  23. “Are you going to be a good girl for me?”
  24. “Show me how bad of a girl you can be. I want to see how naughty you get.”
  25. “I want to taste every inch of your body, exploring it with my tongue until I hear you moan loudly.”
  26. “I am getting so hot thinking about you. I can feel myself getting so hard thinking about how much I want to explore your body.”
  27. “You are unbelievably sexy. I want to lick you from top to bottom, feeling your soft skin as I grind into you on the bed.”
  28. “I’m lying in bed with my hand down my pants rubbing myself just thinking about how wet I’d make you.”
  29. “I dreamed of touching you all over last night. I woke up so hard, all I could think about was how great it would feel to be inside of you.”
  30. “Nothing would feel better right now than to run my hands and tongue all over your body, make you beg for more.”
  31. “I can almost feel you running your hands down my chest and sliding them under my underwear right now.”
  32. “You are so sexy. If I was there I would make you feel so good, licking down your soft body and between your thighs.”
  33. “I love it when my face is buried deep between your legs.”
  34. “I would love to rip all of your clothes off as soon as you come in the door. Throw you on the bed and have my way with you.”
  35. “I can’t stop fantasizing about your perfectly shaped breasts and how amazing it would feel to run my hands and tongue all over them until they’re nice and moist.”
  36. “I want to bend you over and spank your hot ass.”
  37. “Get on top of me and sit on my face so I can make you moan in pleasure with my tongue.”
  38. “I’ve been a bad boy and need to be punished. Take my clothes off and give me what I deserve.”
  39. “I am so horny right now. I need your naked body pressed against mine right now.”
  40. “Something about feeling you get wet makes me so hard. I want to slip my hands down your underwear so bad.”
  41. “Lay down and spread your legs for me. I want to show you how talented I am with my tongue. I’ll have you screaming my name.”
  42. “I can’t stop touching myself thinking about how great it would feel to be next to you naked.”
  43. “I’m lying on my bed naked right now thinking about you. Wish you could give me a hand with the big hard problem I’m having.”
  44. “I’d love to be standing behind you naked, rubbing your shoulders and slowly moving my hands down your soft perfect body.”
  45. “You’ve been on my mind all day. I just can’t stop thinking about how much I want to lick you all over.”
  46. “I want to take all of your clothes off and start kissing you on the lips, working my way down slowly.”
  47. “I’ve gotten myself so worked up just thinking about you. I need your hands all over my body.”
  48. “I want to nibble on your ear and kiss all the way down your neck.”
  49. “You want to feel my hands caress your naked body all over?”
  50. “I can’t stop thinking about how hard I’d come with you.”

Frequently Asked Questions About Sexting

How can I seduce him without words?

You can create a context (say of a dream) and share some naughty things you want to do with him. Don’t go with direct words but play around sensational words. You can leave some things to imagination – a key player in seduction! “Imagine how would it be if you were in the bed next to me...” Got that?

How do girls flirt with compliments?

“I cannot stop thinking what you were doing last night”, “I had a dream about you last night. Well, let’s just say that would be really great if we try!”, “You are even better than chocolate!”, “Feel like meeting me tonight?”, “I would cook tonight. Dress code – aprons only! You okay with that?”

How do you make someone smile over text?

Try to write subtle flirty stuff about him. You can compliment his chin dimple, his voice, and eyes. You may also leave certain things to imagination with “I envy your washroom mirror! It can see you naked” and start a steamy conversation. Try to be personal instead of forwarding generic texts.

What should I say in a flirty text?

You can say the following: “It’s the best feeling to chat with you”, “I could spend hours looking into your deep eyes!” (you can also include his eye-colour), “I had a real fun with you last night, looking forward to more of it!” Get personal and conversational to pull out a flirty text.

What should I say in a flirty text?

“I like you, more than a lot really”, “You are totally perfect in every way! I mean, just how”, “Do you know that I bought a new underwear!”, “I love that stupid grin I have when my phone screen pops up your name”, “You tripped me and I fell! Unfair”

How do you flirt subtly?

“You are too cute man! It’s not fair”, “Do you love my new dress? It’s made of something called girlfriend material. What do you think?”, “Do you know what’s going on in my mind or do I need to say it’s YOU?”, “Right now I wanna have an icecream with someone really cute”

July Update: 16 Sexting Examples ADDED

  • I want to ride you like a pony.
  • I’m going to make you beg me for it tonight.
  • Can you come over and tell me if this skirt is too short?
  • Tell me what you imagine when you touch yourself.
  • If you knew what I was going to do to you later, you’d leave work now.
  • Remember the first time we had sex? Let’s reenact it later.
  • I want you to tease me until I lose my mind.
  • I’m naked in bed fantasizing about you right now.
  • Tell me what you think when you fantasize about me.
  • Bring home some Gatorade, because I’m giving you a workout tonight.
  • I’ve been working on some new yoga positions, and I can’t wait to show you how limber I am.
  • You were so good to me last time. It’s my turn to return the favor.
  • I love thinking about you spanking me and pulling my hair.
  • It’s so hot to imagine you tying me up.
  • I’ve been bad and I need someone to punish me.
  • That scene from [movie/TV show] was so hot.

Is Sexting Still Effective?

“Is Sexting Still Effective?” Did you just ask me that? Unless the man you’re dating is dead, then yes, sexting is still effective. Sexting is the best way to show your sexual intentions to your partner, spouse, or the hot bartender you’ve only had one date with. When you combine the fun of sex with the randomness of texting, you will be surprised at how many people respond with positivity.

In most cases, they wanted to sext you first, but they became too nervous and didn’t want to scare you off. By becoming the person who texts them something naughty first, you show them that you are a forward person and are already thinking the same things.

Sexting is also a great way to get someone in the mood. Scheduling sex, especially in a long-term relationship, can be difficult. You and your partner have many obligations that must come first before each other and both of your needs. That means sex is usually pushed to the wayside. When this happens, there are two things you must do. The first thing is to not blame each other. There are tons of relationships out there that are perfectly healthy.

It’s just that the couple is not having sex because they are too tired at the end of the day. If you want to put a bit of spice back in your sex life, don’t go up to your partner and say you never have sex with me anymore. Say we never have sex anymore!

The second thing you must do is sext each other. By doing this, both of you will signal to the other that you are thinking of sex. This is also a major issue in relationships. One person is thinking of sex, but they don’t want to bother the other person. So they don’t ask for it until they both climb into bed and the lights turn off at midnight.

By that time, the other person is too tired, and now they also feel guilty for rejecting their partner. By sexting each other in the afternoon or when you’re driving home from work, you will signal to another that you are in the mood. Now the scheduling of the sex can begin!

Where Can I Use These Sexting Examples For Him?

Now that you know some great 16 lines to drop on your partner when they least expect it, where and how should you express them? Well, there are several ways to tell your partner that you want to board the train to bonetown. All you must do is be a bit creative. The first way to sex your partner is the most obvious way, and that is my sexting.

A quick text with some sexual content when they are at lunch can brighten their day and get them ready for when they get off work.

Another place to drop a sext for your man is in the private messages of his social media accounts. Imagine your man opening up his Instagram to see his friend’s new shoes, and instead, seeing a filthy message from you. It will definitely be a much better surprise than looking at whatever post he was about to click on.

This is especially fun if you’re right next to him on the couch and pretending that you’re playing with your own phone. Expect him to get so excited that he picks you up and throws you on the bed!

You can even use our sexting examples in the real world by writing a dirty message on a Post-It and stick it in his bag or briefcase. We just hope that it does not fall out when he’s in a meeting!

Be as creative and descriptive as possible, and don’t start off by talking about her breasts and pussy. That will show her you are impatient and just want to do the deed and go home. Sex is fun, and should not be rushed. Now, pull out your phone and start sexting!

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Anna Perkins is a relationship writer who offers her own forthright opinion over the worlds of dating, romance, relationships , marriage and friendships. She loves cats, traveling, spending time with her son and husband.

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