A hug is a fairly intimate physical act, but it can mean a lot of different things. You can always tell how a guy feels about you by kind of hugs he gives. When you become more adept at interpreting men’s body language, you will know how to respond. This knowledge can help you avoid a lot of awkward situations and regret. There are a lot of ways to tell what kind of connection you have with a guy, and this is one. In this article you will learn about the various types of hugs guys give and what they really men.
The “Polite” Hug
If a guy hugs a woman and is clearly trying to minimize physical contact, it is a “polite” hug. The fact is that he probably isn’t very into whoever he is hugging. This particular hug is characterized by widely stretched arms that go out farther than the person’s body. It is the sort of hug that you give a family member that you aren’t very close with or don’t really like. It’s done more out of a sense of obligation or politeness than genuine feeling or emotion.
The Quick Squeeze
Guys also sometimes give girls a quick squeeze as a hug. This is another type of hug that men typically give to girls they aren’t interested in. They are trying to get the moment over with as soon as possible. There is absolutely no lingering, and the embrace probably lasts for about a second or two at the most. If it seems like he is in a hurry to get out of the hug, it’s probably because he is.
The Lift Up
When you go in to give a guy a hug and he kind of raises you up and puts his hands around your waist, you know he is smitten. This hug involves much more physical intimacy than the previous two types. He can’t seem to take his hands off you, and it’s because he feels very comfortable with you. While this huge isn’t terribly common, it’s wonderful when it does happen.
Another sign that a guy might like you as more than a friend is if he wraps his arms around you tight and gives you a quick little spin. He will fully embrace you with both of his arms, twirling your body around gently but fast. While this is sometimes the kind of hug that guys give to close female friends, it usually means they feel something more towards the person.
Squeeze and Kiss
Sometimes if a guy is really into a girl, he will squeeze her tight while still being gentle with a little kiss on the cheek or lips. This makes his feelings a bit more obvious than any of the types of hugs listed above. You know that is a guy squeezes you when hugging that he is really into you. The hug will probably last at least 4 or 5 seconds, but it doesn’t linger very long.
The Sneaky Hug
Have you ever had a guy sneak up behind you and give you a great big hug? If that is the case, there’s a good chance he likes you quite a bit. These are often the hugs that guys give women they have been with for a while. It might be while you are doing the dishes or even vacuuming, but it’s a surprise attack (the cute kind). He will wrap his arms around you and hold you for at least 4 or 5 seconds.
The Back Rub
One of the most intimate types of hugs involves the guy embracing the girl, giving the small of her back a little rub with his hand. This isn’t naughty or sexual, but rather romantic and emotional. There can be a subtle sexual element to it, but it’s not on the surface. This is the kind of hug that guys only give when they really care about a girl in a romantic way. The rubbing of your back could turn into a little squeeze of the butt.
Certain guys have been known to hug girls around the waist if they like them enough. This is a more casual sort of hug that is still very intimate. It is the kind of hug that you can give someone in a public place without being told to get a room. If you receive this particular hug from a guy, you can be pretty sure that he is way into you.
If a guy is hugging a girl that he really wants to get away from, he might do a quick embrace with a little pat on the back. This pat is more of an expression of awkwardness than anything else. He isn’t really sure what to do, so his hand just kind of makes that back and forth clapping motion. This is most likely a sign that he just wants to be friends.
The Slow Dance
This is by far the most intimate type of hug there is. It lingers a long time and sort of turns into a slow rhythmic back and forth between the two people. His head may fall gently onto yours. It isn’t really full on dancing, but more like a hug with some subtle movement to it. This means that he just doesn’t want to let go and feels very strongly about you. If you ever get this kind of hug from a guy, you can be absolutely certain he is into you.
It might sound a little strange, but a seemingly simple hug can tell you a lot about the kinds of feelings a guy has for you. While one hug may be very intimate and romantic, another can be casual and friendly. When you learn to recognize these different kinds of hugs, you will have a much easier time figuring out how guys feel about you.